Saturday, December 12, 2009

Searching for a sperm donor isn't fun!!

Wow! I have been trying to think of a "known donor" all week and it isn't as easy as I thought it would be... Michelle decided to ask this guy we both know spontaneously when we were out the other night and it went both bad and good. First, he dated my cousin before and that was awkward and then he didn't say no, but listening to him talk he wants kids of his own and don't have any so that could make this a bad arrangement. So, even though I think we're back @ square one @ least I think we got practice... So I'm still reading the book and it talks in depth about "known donors" and all the things that should be considered before and during negotiations so this is gonna be harder than I first expected... But my goal is to start a list with possible donors and eliminate them one @ a time... The book an a close friend said that using someone too close to you isn't the idea situation because that person may be around a lot and get too attached... So when looking for a "known donor" look outside you immediate circle and you might be surprised @ who ends up on your list... So this upcoming week I will be making a list and asking potential donors and may be I might have to look into using a sperm bank (will be the last costly option)..

I will end each blog with this disclaimer "I'm not a Doctor or expert on this subject. Anything I say is just informational and you should always speak with your doctor before doing or trying anything I say medically."

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